Alright, y’all, it’s that time of year again—holiday season. You know what that means: food, drinks, desserts, and a whole lot of “just one more slice” moments. And right after all the festive vibes comes the annual tradition of New Year’s resolutions. But let’s keep it real—making those diet-focused goals has become just as much of a tradition as breaking them by February.
Now, let me start by saying there’s nothing wrong with wanting to level up your nutrition, fitness, or overall health after the holidays. That “fresh-start effect” is legit—it’s all about using milestones like the start of a new year to spark change. I’m all about celebrating health goals any time of year. But here’s the deal: let me drop some strategies to help you actually stick to those goals instead of letting them fizzle out.
Stats don’t lie: most people abandon their New Year’s goals before January even wraps up. And it’s not just you—it’s the way those goals are set up.
Here’s the thing: these resolutions tend to be too big, too rigid, framed negatively, and often lack the support system to back them up. That’s a recipe for burnout, disappointment, and a “why even bother?” attitude.
So, let’s shake it up. I’m talking about making health goals that are doable, sustainable, and can turn into long-term habits.
First off, who says you have to wait for January 1? You can start making moves today—right now. Slow it down during meals, grab an extra fruit or veggie, or stop eating once you’re actually full. No need to wait for a specific date to start taking care of yourself.
Let’s talk about why you’re setting these goals in the first place. If your motivation is coming from love for your future self and empowerment, you’re on the right track. But if it’s because everyone around you is hopping on the resolution train or you’re comparing yourself to those “perfect” posts on social media? We gotta rethink that.
And let’s not use the holidays as a “free pass” to overdo it, banking on a January overhaul. That mindset? It’s not setting you up for success.
One big problem with diet-focused goals is that they can be completely unrealistic. You know the ones: lose 40 pounds in 2 weeks or cut out everything you enjoy eating. Goals like that aren’t just tough—they can lead to guilt, shame, and even worse habits down the road. Nobody wants to ride the yo-yo dieting rollercoaster, right?
Here’s How to Do It Better
Small, flexible, and positive goals are where it’s at. Let’s make those resolutions something you can actually feel good about sticking to.
Research shows flexible goals lead to better well-being. Flexibility means being cool with setbacks and adjusting as needed. Think of it like rerouting on GPS: the goal doesn’t change, just the path to get there.
Being too rigid about how you reach your goal can trip you up. It’s not about being perfect; it’s about progress. Lost 10 pounds but can’t shake the last 10? Celebrate the win and keep it moving. Adjust the plan—don’t ditch the goal.
Goals framed around what you want to gain are way more effective than ones about what you want to avoid. Instead of “I don’t want to get diabetes,” aim for “I want to get stronger and feel more energized.” Positive vibes bring positive results.
Don’t go at it solo. Whether it’s a workout buddy, a family member, or even a coach, having support can make all the difference. You’re more likely to stick with it when you’ve got someone hyping you up.
Examples of Health Goals That Hit Different
Need inspiration? Here are some simple, flexible goals to start with:
Bottom Line
Making health goals that work isn’t about going big or going home. It’s about being real, being kind to yourself, and staying flexible. Challenges will pop up, no doubt—but how you adjust makes all the difference.
And remember: goals don’t have to wait for the clock to strike midnight on January 1. You can start fresh any day of the year.
If you need help creating health goals that actually stick, I’m here for you. Let’s chat and set you up with a plan that works for your life. Ready? LEGGO!